Tag: perfectionism

  • Why songs, and other creative projects, stay unfinished

    Why songs, and other creative projects, stay unfinished

    Why do most unfinished songs or art fail early in their creation? Most art fails early because decisions aren’t made.

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    Too many options stall progress

    Decision fatigue can significantly hinder creativity. Each choice we make requires mental energy, and as that reserve diminishes, so does our ability to think creatively or approach problems with fresh perspectives. Researchers from the University of Minnesota note that even minor decisions throughout the day can accumulate into “psychological costs” that reduce cognitive performance and creative capacity (Baumeister et al., 2008). This means that by the time we turn to tasks requiring imaginative thinking or complex problem-solving, our minds are often fatigued, defaulting to safe or conventional solutions rather than inventive ones.

    We can combat decision fatigue when we create. Limiting options by streamlining routines, or even utilising A.I. tools (Yes, I know there are energy and other issues with A.I. so feel free to ignore that bit) can lighten the mental load. Incorporating playful or random decision-making strategies—such as rolling dice, drawing lots, or even picking a tarot card—can free up mental energy by replacing deliberation with a system. These small interventions reduce the cognitive cost of everyday decisions, leaving more energy available for creative thinking.

    Early commitment helps

    Knowing the route saves reading the map; in creative work, this means that understanding your style or genre gives you a natural direction to follow. When you are clear about the kind of story you want to tell, the type of painting you want to create, or the music you want to compose, you have already made an early commitment to the journey. This clarity helps you avoid the trap of endless wandering and second-guessing, which is where so creativity fails. By knowing how you plan to express your ideas—whether through tone, structure, or medium—you create a framework that keeps you moving forward, rather than circling in indecision.

    Finishing requires limits

    We only have a finite amount of time, and our resources are inherently limited, whether in terms of hours in the day, mental energy, or budget. Creative projects often become trapped in a cycle of revisions precisely because these constraints are either ignored or poorly defined. Think about filmmakers like George Lucas, who release multiple Director’s Cuts or re-edited versions of their work… these refinements only occur after the initial release. This is a critical point: they establish a clear endpoint first, complete the project, and only then return for further iteration. Without deadlines or self-imposed limitations, creative projects can drift endlessly as we chase a moving target of perfection. Establishing non-negotiable milestones, such as release dates, exhibition deadlines, or personal cut-off points, forces us to confront the reality of finishing. Clear creative endpoints are not obstacles; they are structures that allow a project to be completed and shared with the world, rather than languishing in a perpetual state of ‘almost done.’

    Staying Inspired and Motivated

    It is easy to feel motivated when an idea is fresh, but as soon as the work shifts into the first draft or rough version stage, energy can fade… we lose enthusiasm beyond the initial spark… or I do. Drafts feel clumsy and are naturally incomplete, and the excitement of the initial concept seems distant. This is a potential creative stall point.

    It is crucial to find ways to keep your creativity engaged. Rather than seeing early versions as a chore, treat them as opportunities for experimentation. Visual artists can photograph their work in progress and play with the colours or composition in a digital editor to discover new dimensions. Writers breathe new life into a draft by rereading it from a different narrative viewpoint—switching between first, second, or third person to see how the story transforms. Musicians and composers experiment with tempo, instrumentation, or arrangement to uncover fresh emotional tones.

    In essence, the secret is to avoid stagnation by creating multiple versions and perspectives of your work. Instead of letting your enthusiasm wane, use creative remixing to reignite your interest. Don’t allow boredom to halt progress, treat every stage as a chance to explore, adapt, and rediscover the joy in your project. But, remember the earlier points, only version your work if inspiration is waning.

    Clarity beats polish

    All art doesn’t have to be perfect and pristine. Clarity in what you want to say is always more important than polish and perfection in how you say it. If the message, or what you want to say, is clear, then the rules for your creative medium can, and perhaps should, be broken.

    This is often where creative projects remain unfinished. We trap ourselves in the pursuit of perfection, spending endless hours trying to follow every rule or polish every imperfection. Yet, as Picasso once said, “Learn the rules like a pro, so you can break them like an artist.” If your what you want to say is clear, any so‑called imperfections may actually serve your message, not hinder it. Rules are tools, not chains.

    The danger of never breaking free from these rules is that art remains unfinished. By insisting on perfection, you risk never finishing, never sharing, and never letting your art live. Creativity thrives when you allow yourself to break the rules to serve the idea, trusting that your message will connect with others more than any flawless technique ever could.

    In conclusion

    There are many reasons our art stalls early on and remains unfinished, but there are also many ways to push through and complete our creative projects.

    Decide what you want to say, use simple routines and systems, set a clear goal and stay inspired. But above all else, it’s not perfection it’s art, your art; create.


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  • What I believed about creativity that turned out to be wrong

    What I believed about creativity that turned out to be wrong

    Some creative beliefs only make sense in hindsight. I believed in perfection, I needed faith in the imperfect.

    Beliefs shape behaviour

    Believing something is impossible means we will not even try to do it. If we think we will never be a writer, a painter or a composer, we will not even attempt to be one. However, if I think I can write a sentence, a paragraph, then I will. If I believe I can add a brush stroke I will. If I know I can hum a tune, I will compose.

    Early assumptions often wrong

    My personality type means I like to see the big picture. I like to see a perfect, complete creation. I thought something I created, a song, a drawing, a story, needed to be perfect. If the idea in my head had little to no relation to what I was creating then I’d lose interest. I didn’t create.

    It wasn’t until later I learnt that this was something I could address. It was part of me, but I didn’t have to let it control my creative output.

    Experience changes perspective

    I spent years as a commissioning editor for a publishing house. I was always encouraging my authors to think about small chunks of their work. They didn’t have to “worry” about the editing, the layout, the cover… their primary focus had to be the words they were writing.

    It is often a fact that it is easier to see the mistakes others are making while ignoring ourselves doing similar. It took me years to learn that. Perhaps it won’t take you as long.

    Just to add, once those words were written by the authors, then they could engage in editing, marketing and cover discussions.

    Growth requires revision

    It isn’t just about one belief. We pick up many beliefs as we develop our creative practice. We listen or watch others create. We learn from tutorials or are taught at schools and universities. We learn. However, some things that are learnt, may not work for us, or they may take us down a wrong path. For years, I had believed music had to be structured in a certain way. I had failed to understand that rules underpin, they create frameworks for us to hang our creative acts upon. Rules and beliefs are also there to be broken, when required. There is nothing as liberating as breaking a creative rule and discovering something beautiful.

    Creatives do this all the time. We should always be revising what and how we create; as we revise we grow.

    Learning never stops

    I mentioned being taught. There is nothing wrong with going to college or university and learning a creative process or skill. We all “learn” to some extent. Our challenge is to keep learning. Just like breaking rules and growing through revision, we should never stop learning new techniques, skills or creating in unique ways. Those of us who use technology as a creative tool need to constantly keep our eye on software as it develops. There is also the use of A.I. What is our stance on using it? More and more software, and hardware, is integrating it. Perhaps we currently steer clear because the energy cost in data centres. But A.I. will soon be portable, using only the battery charge on our phones, tablets or laptops. I’m not advocating for or against its use, but it is an example of how things change, and change means learning, or adapting, how to create within such environments.

    So…

    I believed my creations needed to be perfect. I was wrong. Learning that has enabled me to create, and enjoy creating.

    Do you have any beliefs that are stopping you from creating?


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  • Perfectionism destroys creativity

    Perfectionism destroys creativity

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    Hello worlds! I found myself thinking about how it is perfectionism created by myself, which, ironically, destroys my creativity. This week’s vlog examines how I must embrace the unknown and let creativity flow.


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  • Creativity and perfectionism

    I take a look at how perfectionism so easily hinders creativity. I also share what I have been creating recently with my adventures through FAWM. Click above or below to watch...


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